In His Own Words
About Him
Simply because I'm a nice guy, friendly, helpful, creative, with a rather "off the wall" sense of humour. I never did have much info in this section the past, but a change is always good. The question I am asked most often relates to my nick, why "Gothic Dutchman" When I created it, I thought the contrast to be rather entertaining, but the art, some of the music, and in particular the lyrics and poetry found in the culture is incredibly creative. I enjoy art, all forms of art, without it life would be terribly bland. I spend the greatest portion of my life in search of beauty, and after a myriad of journeys, the road has always led back to the self. Without the discovery of what is inside you, it is impossible to see the beauty that surrounds us.
I love the Universe, and all that it contains, it goes beyond "loving nature", it is about the soul of each living creature, loving the core of creation, of which I am a part, and as are you..
About His Ideal Match
To be a match, search deeper than your skin, your field of vision is beyond that which you see, beauty is not in the eye of the beholder, you know that your beauty is buried within your soul..
I male, so obviously physical beauty will catch my eye, but that is about as far as it goes, it will impress me for a few days perhaps, and then I start looking for more,.. No, not just sex, I need more,.. I need someone that can be as light hearted and full of humour as I am, and secure in the knowledge that we have transcended our respective ego's
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Shepstone, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Durban Metro (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction |
TV Shows: |
Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Other |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
